You Survived The Narcissist

Now Let's Undo What Survival Did To You


Your reactions aren’t flaws.

Your nervous system is still running
the program the narcissist trained into you.

Let’s retrain it so peace feels safe again 

 

You don’t have to leave to start healing but you do need
support to retrain your body out of survival mode.

Hypervigilance, overthinking, people-pleasing,
self-doubt, those aren’t ‘you’.

They’re survival responses.

And they can be rewired.

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You Survived The Narcissist

 Now Let's Undo

What Survival Did To You


Your reactions aren’t flaws.

Your nervous system is still running
the program the narcissist trained into you.

Let’s retrain it so peace feels safe again 

 

You don’t have to leave to start healing but you do need
support to retrain your body out of survival mode.

Hypervigilance, overthinking, people-pleasing,
self-doubt, those aren’t ‘you’.

They’re survival responses.

And they can be rewired.

Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session →
Not ready to book? Learn how The Freedom Shift™ works →

If you’re still...

〜 Replaying conversations to see what you did wrong

〜 Feeling a pit in your stomach when someone takes too long to reply

〜 Freezing during conflict to keep the peace

〜 Over-apologising without knowing why

〜 Second-guessing every decision…

 

Your body isn’t failing you.

It’s protecting you with an old survival blueprint.

It’s time to teach it something new.

I help women retrain the survival brain, rebuild self-trust, and reclaim the version of themselves they lost, gently and strategically.

 

Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session →

If you’re still...

 

〜 Replaying conversations to see what you did wrong

〜 Feeling a pit in your stomach when someone takes too long to reply

〜 Freezing during conflict to keep the peace

〜 Over-apologising without knowing why

〜 Second-guessing every decision…

 

Your body isn’t failing you.

It’s protecting you with an old survival blueprint.

It’s time to teach it something new.

I help women retrain the survival brain, rebuild self-trust, and reclaim the version of themselves they lost. 

Gently. Systematically. Strategically.

 

 

Book A Connection Session→

A Trusted Voice in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

A Trusted Voice in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

 FREE RESOURCE FOR YOU: 

THE FREEDOM BLUEPRINT QUIZ 

Still wondering why peace feels unsafe, even after leaving the narcissist?
What if your body is still following an old survival script — one that once protected you, but now keeps you from fully trusting yourself? The Freedom Blueprint Quiz™ reveals your unique nervous-system pattern after narcissistic abuse and helps you understand how your brain learned to keep you safe. Through gentle awareness, you’ll see how to retrain those patterns for calm, confidence, and self-trust. If you're ready to move beyond survival and finally feel free within your own body, then this is for you.

What to Expect in 1:1 Coaching

 

This isn’t talk-therapy. It’s neuroscience in action.

Each session gently retrains your stress response so peace feels familiar again.

You’ll learn to:

  • Settle anxiety in minutes, no story-retelling required.
  • Rebuild self-trust through nervous-system regulation.
  • Create boundaries that feel natural, not defensive.
  • Lead your life, work, and relationships from grounded calm.
See How The Freedom Shift Works →
  • I’m a survivor, counsellor, and trauma-informed coach.
  • For decades, I struggled to understand why I couldn't find peace.
  • Once I studied how narcissistic abuse rewires the nervous system, everything shifted.
  • Now I help women rebuild internal safety so they can trust their voice, their choices, and their calm again.
  • When your body feels safe, your life follows.

     

What to Expect in 1:1 Coaching

 

This isn’t talk-therapy. It’s neuroscience in action.

Each session gently retrains your stress response so peace feels familiar again.

You’ll learn to:

  • Settle anxiety in minutes, no story-retelling required.
  • Rebuild self-trust through nervous-system regulation.
  • Create boundaries that feel natural, not defensive.
  • Lead your life, work, and relationships from grounded calm.
See How The Freedom Shift Works →
  • I’m a survivor, counsellor, and trauma-informed coach.
  • For decades, I struggled to understand why I couldn't find peace.
  • Once I studied how narcissistic abuse rewires the nervous system, everything shifted.
  • Now I help women rebuild internal safety so they can trust their voice, their choices, and their calm again.
  • When your body feels safe, your life follows.

     

Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session → Experience Calm Now

Imagine What Life Could Feel Like When You’re Free

 

You wake up calm, grounded, and fully at ease in your own body.

You no longer second-guess your every move or silence your voice to keep the peace.

You’ve rebuilt trust in yourself and it shows in every decision you make.
You’ve created boundaries that feel natural, not forced.

You’re surrounded by people who respect your voice and your values.

You make choices that reflect who you are, not who you were taught to be.

And for the first time in a long time...
you’re not just surviving. You’re living as yourself.

 

This isn’t a dream, it's what happens when your nervous system learns that it's finally safe.

Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session →

Imagine What Your Life Could Look Like...

 

You wake up calm, grounded, and fully at ease in your own body.

You no longer second-guess your every move or silence your voice to keep the peace.

You’ve rebuilt trust in yourself and it shows in every decision you make.

You’ve created boundaries that feel natural, not forced.

You’re surrounded by people who respect your voice and your values.

You make choices that reflect who you are, not who you were taught to be.

And for the first time in a long time...
you’re not just surviving. You’re living as yourself.


This isn’t a dream, it's what happens when your nervous system learns that it's finally safe.


Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session →

HI, I'M

MARGI BOWDEN

FOUNDER & SURVIVOR

 

For forty years, Margi lived in a relationship that slowly dismantled her confidence until she believed she was the problem.

When she discovered how narcissistic abuse rewires the nervous system, everything changed.

Now she helps women rebuild safety, trust, and self-worth through neuroscience-based coaching that goes far beyond talk therapy.

Her mission is simple: to help survivors stop surviving, and start living as their true selves.

Read My Story →

HELLO, I'M...

MARGI BOWDEN

FOUNDER & SURVIVOR

 

For forty years, Margi lived in a relationship that slowly dismantled her confidence until she believed she was the problem.

When she discovered how narcissistic abuse rewires the nervous system, everything changed.

Now she helps women rebuild safety, trust, and self-worth through neuroscience-based coaching that goes far beyond talk therapy.

Her mission is simple: to help survivors stop surviving,  and start living as their true selves.

Read My Story →

Private coaching for women ready to move beyond recovery and live from freedom, not fear.

Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session →

Private coaching for women ready to move beyond recovery and live from freedom, not fear.

 

Book Your 1:1 Coaching Session →

Will Coaching Work For Me?

Will Coaching Work For Me?