I'm a Survivor Who Knows the Way Out
Because I Had to Find It Myself
For 40 years, I lived in a narcissistic relationship.
From the outside, I looked strong. But inside, I was disappearing—anxious, exhausted, and trapped in a life that never felt like mine.
I tried everything to heal.
Psychiatrists. Therapists. Coaches.
Talk therapy. Somatic healing. Yoga. Meditation. Buddhist study.
Each one helped me cope…
But none of them showed me how to break free.
Finally, the thought of wasting another 10 years - or even 6 more months shrinking myself just to survive became unbearable.
Something had to change.
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That’s when I started searching for the real reason I felt so desperately lost, stuck, and helpless.
Not just what was happening around me-but what had been happening inside me all along.
What I discovered changed everything.
It wasn’t about surface-level fixes.
It was about rewiring the programming that had kept me stuck.
The beliefs. The self-image. The fear. The patterns I couldn’t see.
That’s when I created The Freedom Shift.
A powerful neuroscience-informed framework that helped me rebuild from the inside out.
Today, I don’t just survive, I live a life I created and it's full of everything I once thought was out of reach.Â
And now, I'm passionate about helping other women do the same.
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Let's Begin Your ShiftThe FREEDOM Shift™Â
Finally - understand how to break free from the inner blocks that are keeping you stuck. Â
If all you got was ONE of these shifts—your life would already feel different.
But you’re getting all seven, in the exact order that sets you free from narcissistic programming, trauma looping, and emotional paralysis.
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If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, you know what it’s like to feel confused, exhausted, and unable to move forward—no matter how hard you try.
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The truth is: most survivors are working on the wrong things.
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They’re trying to heal the symptoms without understanding what’s driving the stuckness underneath.
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The FREEDOM Shift™ is a neuroscience-informed framework that helps you heal at the root level, by showing you how to reprogram the beliefs, habits, and thought patterns that the narcissist rewired.
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There are 7 Powerful Shifts, you’ll learn how to master.
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The Awakening Shift Get off autopilot and start seeing how your beliefs, blind spots, and locus of control have been keeping you stuck.
The Belief Shift Uncover and dismantle the hidden beliefs you’ve internalized so you stop living by fear, shame, or what they told you was true.
The Mindset Shift Understand how your conscious and subconscious mind works, so you can stop running old programs and create a new future on purpose.
The Self-Talk Shift Replace the critical voice inside your head with one that builds you up, not tears you down.
The Self Esteem Shift Rebuild your inner foundation so you no longer settle for less than you deserve.
The Goal ShiftÂ
Learn how to use your brain’s built-in goal-seeking power to move toward who you’re becoming - not who you had to be to survive.
The Identity Shift Anchor your transformation with a new self-image - one that reflects the truth of your worth, power, and potential.
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Start Your Shift Today
Imagine What Your Life Could Look Like
You wake up feeling calm, grounded, and fully in control of your life.
You no longer second-guess yourself.
You no longer walk on eggshells.
You’ve reclaimed your power and it shows.
You’ve created boundaries that protect your peace.
You’ve surrounded yourself with people who truly see you, respect you, and lift you higher.
You’re making choices that reflect your values - free from fear, guilt, or manipulation.
And for the first time in a long time… you’re free to pursue your joy, your passions, your dreams.
This isn’t just a dream.
This is what healing feels like, and you can have it too!
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You can make progress or make excuses. But not both.

I've Been Where You Are Now
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You don’t need more information—you need a system that rewires the beliefs keeping you stuck. I walk with you through each shift. You won’t do this alone.
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You’ve already spent on things that didn’t move the needle. This is the shift that does.
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